There is no such thing as selfishness. Only confusion that brings with it the false notion that one MUST seek for oneself in order to be okay. I have no choice but to do what I think I have to do.
True “selfishness” would be the intentional hoarding of things I know I don’t need. No one does that. People hold tight to things either because they think they need to or because they can’t help it (which is same thing just with less awareness).
Innocent.
Just like me.
If I want to be free of selfishness I can question every thought of what I think I need.
And find that everything is always going right where it’s supposed to go.